Are you a stranger-aphobe?

We're also lazy and I'm guilty of this too at times. How do we keep up otherwise? I get that. But when it gets to a stage that you don't even know your neighbours' name, aren't we going in the wrong direction? In city centres I get it a bit more, but there's opportunities in any situation to stray from your comfort bubble.

Try this Quick Fire Test:

- Do you know the name of 10 or more people on your street?

- On a sunny morning, do you say hello to random strangers?

- Do you make sure the *parent (can't say mum, it may be deemed sexist) with a pram can definitely make it up/down the steps at the station before you go on your way?

- Would you recognise the person who runs your local shop, if they weren't in it?

- Have you ever asked your neighbour for a cup of sugar, just for an excuse to say hello?

 

More than 5 yes's mean you are struggling with maths.
4-5 means you're quite a social butterfly.
2-3, well you like to make a token effort.
1 or less, I suspect you may be a stranger-aphobe.

 

 

 

 

Being friendly can be quite 'uplifting', so give it a go. Obviously stay clear of the weirdos. Tip - If you're not sure if they are a tad potty and a potential stalker, then maybe just try the next person.

I read somewhere that taking 5 seconds to compliment a complete stranger can not only make their day and boost their mood, but it won't make you feel too shabby either. We all like a quick boost right?

I'm obviously a talker, that's why I like being on the radio, but challenge yourself. You never know, you might enjoy it.

My apologies if you don't, but kudos for trying.

 

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